Welcome to A Gravel Road Journey!

NOT SO LONG AGO, Dad RE-named his art studio, "A Gravel Road Studio", and so this seemed an appropiate title for his blog.

Why 'Gravel Road'? As Dad explains, "Gravel roads take us off life's busy highway and force us to slow down. When we slow down we have time - time to notice the things around us; the things that matter the most; life and breath, the flowers and the trees. Gravel roads allow us to taste the dust of our travel and give us time to breathe."

Since his studio is a place of quiet reflection and contemplation, we wanted to create a space for family and friends to do the same as we journey together down this new and unknown path. We also wish to keep family and friends updated on his diagnoses and treatment, so please check in often for updates and new information.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

MRI and recent updates

Hello All!

Been meaning to update all week - but the closer it gets to Christmas, the busier life seems to become, and it's hard to find the time to do all the 'extra' things I need to get done in a day! Thankfully Jared will be done school for the semester in a couple weeks and then he'll be able to help out around the house a bit more.

Anyway...Dad had his MRI on Friday. We haven't heard anything to the contrary, so I am assuming that it went well. I think we're all hoping this week goes by quickly, as we have to wait until this next Friday, Dec. 5th to get the results back. From this we will have a better idea of how Dad's tumor is doing and if it responded at all to his radiation and chemo treatments. We will also get news on a possible second round of treatment, which will most likely involve much heavier doses of chemo than the last time around. But until Friday, we don't know anything for sure.

I can tell you a few things that have been going on around Mom and Dad's house this last week, though. On Monday Mom had a hospital bed delivered for Dad. Because he has been sleeping so much, and because he is such a big guy and it's getting harder and harder for Mom to help him get up out of bed, she went ahead and ordered the hospital bed for him. It has been set up in the family room and so far, it seems to be working well, although I don't think Dad cares for being on the main floor much. But this is a lot better than having him collapse while walking up the stairs!

Mom has also had to install some other safety measures around the house, including rails on the toilet to help Dad get up. One of Mom's sisters and her husband visited earlier in the week and brought along four canes for Dad. They also have a walker and a wheelchair, so there is no shortage of ways to get him up and about when he needs it!

However, with the installation and arrival of all of these things, comes the realization that Dad is becoming increasingly ill. We were told after the first round of treatments that Dad would be almost back to his normal self for a few months, but unfortunately, that has yet to happen. While he has been feeling better the last few days than he has for the last few weeks - he's been awake and more alert than he had been - he is still not bouncing back from the first round of treatments like we thought he would. So, we continue to hope and pray for miracles of healing and of strength for Dad. And no matter what, we continue to believe that God is in control of this situation and that He continues to walk beside us down this bumpy gravel road.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dana,

Thanks for the update. I continue to pray for God's healing. Reading this blog is truly a blessing.I pray that your Dad would continue to regain strength so that he may be stronger for the next round of treatments. I pray for your entire family that you will continue to lean on the everlasting arms of God. I pray for the doctors as they view this recent MRI that they would be able to clearly determine the next course of action.
The road is never easy when you do not know what lies ahead. I pray for your mom that God would continue to give her the strength that she needs daily.
I listened to this song recently bye Hillsong called the Desert Song:

This is my prayer in the desert
When all that is in me feels dry
THis is my prayer in my hunger need
My God is the God who provides
THis is my prayers in the fire
In Weakness or trial or pain
There is a faith proved of more worth than gold
so refine me Lord through the flame

I will sing praise
I will sing praise
No weapon formed against shall remain
I will rejoice I will declare
God is my victory and He is here

This is my prayer in the battle
When triumph is still on its way
I am a conqueror and co-heir with Christ
so firm on his promise I'll stand

All of my life, in every season
You are still God, I have a reason to sing
I have a reason to worship you

These lyrics reminded me that no matter what the season we are in God is there every step of the way.

Diane

Anonymous said...

dana,
it's so good to get this update - i've been thinking of your "dad" lots lately and praying for him... checking the blog every couple of days. sometimes it's so easy to feel like god is not measuring up to the hopes that we have or to think that people aren't praying enough or we're not good enough to receive god's healing. i am praying that you and the family will not lose sight of god's unseen and unfathomable plans. it's so encouraging to hear you say that you are still believing that god is in control and walking beside you all! he'll even carry you when need be LOL.
you are still in our prayers and we miss you :)
julie

Anonymous said...

Just wanted you to know that I'm praying for your family as you go for the results of the MRI today. Know you have many around you that thinking of you today.

Ken